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Sex Gets Real 127: Sinclair Sexsmith on power dynamics

Sinclair Sexsmith (you might know them as Sugarbutch) is here this week and we are talking ALL about kink, BDSM, and power dynamics. We take a look at Sinclair’s journey from submissive to Top to Dominant to Daddy and Master. What is it like to live in a 24/7 Master slave dynamic? How can people […]

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  • Dawn
  • September 18, 2016

Sex Gets Real 126: Yana Tallon-Hicks on pleasure and polyamory

How does traditional consent education fail us? What do you do if you’re in a new open relationship and it just isn’t working for you? Can someone really orgasm without having their genitals touched? This week, Yana Tallon-Hicks joins the show and we roll around in all those questions and more (don’t miss Dawn’s story […]

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  • Dawn
  • September 11, 2016

Sex Gets Real 125: Karen BK Chan on kindness and the masks we wear

Sometimes I get intimidated or nervous about speaking with a guest. Other times I feel excited to dig in with a colleague or friend. But this week? The only word I had was delight. Karen BK Chan delights me with her words and thoughts and ideas. The way she questions our cultural stories and makes […]

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  • Dawn
  • September 4, 2016

Sex Gets Real 124: Dylan is back this week!

What can I even say about an episode that not only has Dylan, as the celesbian guest this week, but Dylan singing Rihanna? Yep. It was amazing having Dylan back on the show, beer in hand, for a fun, frank discussion and answering listener questions. She has been working so hard that we’ve had virtually […]

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  • Dawn
  • August 28, 2016

Sex Gets Real 123: Emily Nagoski talking pleasure, joy, & science

We all have those people that we admire to the point of fandom, and for me, one of those people is Emily Nagoski. Her work has had a deep impact on my personal life and my professional life. She single-handedly changed the way I work with clients who have low desire or libido they aren’t […]

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  • Dawn
  • August 21, 2016

Sex Gets Real 122: Conner Habib talking consent & feminism

Conner Habib generously agreed to jump on the phone with me at the last minute for this week’s episode, and our conversation is incredibly political and philosophical in ways you don’t often hear on the show. This is my second time interviewing Conner and both times we’ve chatted, I’ve felt challenged and inspired to think […]

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  • Dawn
  • August 14, 2016

Sex Gets Real 121: Princess Kali on erotic humiliation and kink

There is something so delicious in talking about something that I have so little experience with. This week’s chat with Princess Kali is just that – a fun, playful talk about erotic humiliation, objectification, mastering kink, and being a Dominatrix. It’s rich, it’s approachable, and it’s terribly intriguing. Throughout the episode, Princess Kali drops truthbomb […]

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  • Dawn
  • August 7, 2016

Sex Gets Real 120: Trans fantasies, pegging, & dating a survivor

It’s just you and me this week. No guest. No interview. Just your questions and emails and me savoring every single one of them. We’re talking transsexual fetish sex, pegging, exploring sex with a partner who is a rape survivor, what it means to be bad at sex, Hollywood myths about how sex should look, […]

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  • Dawn
  • July 31, 2016

Sex Gets Real 119: Andre Shakti on wrestling, fisting, and sex work

This week’s chat is one of my favorites. Andre Shakti is an absolute delight. The first time I saw her in person at Sex Down South last year, I was in complete awe. She is this vibrant, powerful force to be reckoned with, and when she said she’d come on the show I was completely […]

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  • Dawn
  • July 24, 2016

Sex Gets Real 118: Kaila Prins on pole dancing and burlesque

Body positivity is something I constantly bring up on the show – not only because it’s an important part of my own story, but because I’m constantly getting questions from listeners about their own body shame and struggles. That’s why I am so excited by this unapologetic and energizing look into pole dancing and burlesque […]

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  • Dawn
  • July 17, 2016

Wednesday Words: Pronoun snafu

Each week, I answer one of your burning questions on the blog. This week Garrison asks: I have a question about pronouns. I am an LGBTQ ally. This is an important issue for me though everything on my stat sheet says oppressor (cis, male, straight white). A couple months ago there was an incident that […]

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  • Dawn
  • June 22, 2016

Sex Gets Real 114: JoEllen Notte on sex positivity vs sex performativity

JoEllen Notte is a sex educator powerhouse – she is revolutionizing the discussion about sex and depression, and also has a beautiful blog all about sex positivity, sex toys, and introversion. She recently reached out to me and asked if she could come on the show to talk about sex positivity versus sex performativity. Or, […]

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  • Dawn
  • June 19, 2016

Wednesday Words: Sex in public

Each week, I answer one of your burning questions on the blog. This week Might Get Caught asks: Hi Dawn! I need your advice. I’ve always had this fantasy of having sex in public – movie theaters, parks, etc. I hinted at the idea with my new boyfriend and he seemed open to it, so […]

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  • Dawn
  • June 15, 2016

Sex Gets Real 111: Showtime’s Submission with Jacky St. James & Ashlynn Yennie

Showtime’s new late-night show, Submission, is all about BDSM. We follow Ashley, a woman coming out of yet another sexually unsatisfying relationship, as she begins to explore her desire in the realm of power exchange and BDSM. Written and directed by Jacky St. James, who has taken the feminist porn world by storm, the show […]

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  • Dawn
  • May 29, 2016

Sex Gets Real 102: Daddy Doms, vibrators, and sex for newbies

Dirty Lola in the house Dawn has two announcements: First up, there is a free webinar on March 28th all about intimacy in relationships as you explore non-monogamy and opening an existing relationship up. Register here! Second, Dawn is an expert speaking at the Love Detox online event that starts April 4th. Learn more here: […]

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  • Dawn
  • March 27, 2016
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